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a Look-a-likes, slangenmelkers, matrassentesters and Netflix subtitlers. In this section, we interview people from a non-standard answer to a ' What are you on, anyway? At this time, LunatiKa, united states just.

What do you mean? When LunatiKa (42) in the: united states the Customer: "Voetaanbidders, geldslaafjes for men, women sneaking a lingerie to wear... you name it! But the one thing they have in common, however: they are in fact searching for a connection."

LunatiKa, who prefer to be under a pen name, it interviewed, it has a philosophy, the study and practice of tantra. However, she also works as a sex worker behind the webcam as the digital the or online GAMES-the mistress (BDSM is an acronym that stands for activities, and the kind of relationships that have to do with the play of power and/or the imposition of physical restraints).

you can see Them, this work is more spiritual than just physical. Tantra and webcamseks have sexuality as an the interface, but the approach is different. "On the cams sites out to the customer, often with the desire to have a fast, flat, has to be experienced. In tantra, the idea is that sexual energy have to feeling, within yourself and in relationship to each other."

as for Her looking for LunatiKa to hold up a mirror. She wants to be she is not satisfied to take just a quick response. As to why she's chosen for her mission in this way, your browser? "It was really a way of life. The men, all of their customers are male, ed.). come to me with an attitude that goes out of it. They have a goal in mind and that I am the way." A leading, dominant role in the market was found to be the most effective at breaking the momentum.

“When a man asks if I want to dress up, I say, seduced me at once.”

LunatiKa, united states the Quest to have more than a superficial enjoyment,
That does not mean that the LunatiKa only recommend to others. It's going to be more likely to face up to. LunatiKa: "If a man asks if I have a bit more of my own, I can say I'm: tempted me in once." Often, trying one and then have to do it by yourself, the clothes have to go. Then she starts laughing. "I want to let it be known that it's not so easy."

This approach is for her clients, and sometimes disturbing, but it is also the starting point for the search of a sexuality that goes beyond superficial pleasures. It's going to be really touch and intimacy, which, nudity, sex, and the orgasm part, but it will also take on a different significance and meaning.
the Taboo of female sexuality

According to the LunatiKa, there are plenty of people on her web site that, in real life, unfulfilled desires, and cherish. It shows that the things that are on a personal and sexual level with her customers to play with, and a reflection of social expectations and patterns.

"The relationship between men and women, it is out of balance. There is, for example, the taboo on female sexuality. Men, too, have suffered from it, but in real life it is not always easy to get set in patterns, it's too late! Can be done Online in a safe and secure way to experiment."

The man begged me for money to take the'

in A case that LunatiKa is that of a man who played the role of "geldslaaf wanted to take it. This is a well-known term within the BDSM world. As for the man, for the first time in her aanklopte, he had a well-paying job, a fancy car and an expensive house. LunatiKa: "However, on the webcam, he begged me to give him all of that money is starting to take off. It is less than was that he saw that I was giving him the expensive loan for me to quit."

They found a middle ground. She showed him the small sums of money to pay for a variety of online services. But they went on a search for his true desires, which was behind the sexual desires to share with you. In the meantime, the man changed jobs and moved away, and he will lead a more fulfilling existence. The painting, LunatiKa, and its customers have been, are a little less extreme they become.

“We all have unique passions.”

LunatiKa < / p> LunatiKa: "We all have unique passions. However, the more you have the desires of your heart are suppressed, the more they are on a different level to the expression." The result is, according to her, in the examination and acceptance of all the desires of your heart so that you have them in a polite and constructive way, you can integrate it into your life.

a Call to Respond to people more than once to be surprised when you tell them about your job? Or do you know someone in such a profession? We are looking forward to hearing your story! Email with the subject line 'What are you doing, anyway?" at gea.bruinsma@nu.nl