I'm pregnant and have in the past had many conversations with other pregnant women about a specific issue, namely, that the partner will be banned from pregnancy-, birth - and postnatal care, and I feel that we are not being heard or taken seriously.
We dread the us to birth, for we are afraid that our partner does not get to take part in the largest to happen in life. The Hen will not be at the consultations, either with the midwife or ultrasound, and by several hospitals will not get the partner to be there as a support for the mother at childbirth.Sunniva preparing for solitary confinement-the birth
I understand that you have to avoid infection at the hospital, I understand the severity and risks associated with the covid-19, but I don't really understand why the hospitals do as they do. If the partner is healthy, without signs of respiratory tract infection, then get to go be on active birth, it will say when the mother is being wheeled into the fødestua. But this can take a long time. At start-up it may take several days.
Why does the hen not be with from the start? The mother needs the support right from the beginning, and the partner should also have the right to be able to be there from the beginning and you go home with a new family member.live streamed the birth
Now is the rules how to that the partner will be involved in the birth if the hen is healthy, but by more hospitals must partner to go home a few hours after the baby is born. This I think is very strange, since the partner is already in the hospital, and most likely without infection, since hen have been made with the birth.
Although the birth is over, so need mother continued support, and to be able to have the person you trust the most, by his side after such a strain is important psychologically, but also physically, when the partner can relieve the mother, and the staff at the hospital. It is also the partner of their birth, even if the hen is not physically gives birth to the baby, and I believe that the partner has as much right to be at the hospital during your stay as the mother has.Director: To be handled Corona-baby Dagbladet Plus
It's tough mentally for the partner having to leave a vulnerable mother, or to not participate, and it can in worst case lead to postpartum depression for the partner. It should not be so that we as pregnant women should go around being afraid to give birth alone. It is not healthy for us, or for the child in the stomach, that we shall feel afraid, lonely and overlooked. Even so, reviews FHI, the Norwegian directorate of Health and hospitals partner as "unnecessary visit". It is a mockery, and a terribly condescending way to talk about the other parent. One is like two to create a child, then one must also include the ages of the party.
Jordmorforbundet highlights that the first time is extremely important when it comes to connection with the newborn. It is equally important that the partner get to know the feelings.
I ask you to take pregnancy and barselomsorgen seriously, do not destroy for more people to give birth or go pregnant. Open up for that mother and partner can get a good pregnancy, a safe birth and a nice barselopphold with the new family member, and help to lessen the chances of fødselsdepresjoner in both mother and partner. Mvh pregnant woman 30Fastlegene has been skviset for years Comment
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